Aku merasa beruntung bisa bersahabat dengan banyak orang, karena dengan begitu aku bisa melihat banyak sekali jenis personalities dan mendengar banyak pikiran dari orang yang berbeda-beda.
By the way this is a post about ones of so many close friends in my life ya
Aku punya 2 peer groups dengan 2 personalities general yang beda jauh, I love them the same and I am so proud to have them.
Menarik sih buatku bagaimana mereka sangat berbeda satu sama lain tapi aku selalu bisa merasa cocok dan fit tanpa harus berubah menjadi orang lain hanya untuk berbaur dengan mereka.
Peer group pertama: isinya cewe semua, cantik-cantik, looks girly but aslinya not really, no border between us like literally no border dalam hal apapun, very much understanding and easy to talk to, supportive and the jokes are sometimes hardcore
Peer group kedua : isinya cewe sama cowo, the people are fun to be around with, not really open to each other but it's still awesome, always relate problems to something logic, very open minded and critical
I mean, isn't it awesome to be me? To be surrounded by people who are so different but still in sync with you?
Biasanya, orang kalau berteman ya setipe gitu gasih? Not literally sama tapi masih setipe, tapi mereka itu beda banget tipenya dan tau gak kenapa aku tetep bisa get along sama keduanya?
YAS it is because we respect each other as friends!
We accept each other, we care for eachother, and we appreciate each other
Respect, care, appreciation, acceptance are the keys.
I have met lots of people and they ended up being my enemies or just being "somebody I dont want to talk to". Why? Well because the relationships that we had were lack of those keys, atau lebih tepatnya kita ga cocok satu sama lain. Aku tipe orang yang kalau memang tidak bisa akrab ya gak akan aku paksain, ga ada basa-basi I don't like it I leave it. I mean I always try my best to make people feel comfortable around me, tapi kalau mereka dan aku sama-sama tidak nyaman dengan kehadiran masing-masing, ya apa mau dikata tinggalin aja gasih? Life is too short to be spent with the wrong people
(They're wrong for me, and I am no right for them either)
Untuk bersahabat dengan banyak orang itu mudah, all we need are the keys
